“我离开是为了追求我热爱的事情”是辞职的一个好理由吗?

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## 说“我离开是为了做我热爱的事”真的是一个好的辞职理由吗? 今天,像往常一样,我在办公室附近的公园慢慢散步,以便在遇到小问题无法解决时清理思绪。这样的时刻常常带来清晰的思考,让过去的经历逐一浮现。 不久前,我听到有人辞职的理由是: *“我离开是为了做我热爱的事。”* 这并没有什么本质上的错误。对某事充满热情显示了热忱,拥有自己的方向无疑是值得钦佩的。 然而,我注意到,每当人们以这个理由离开时,他们的离去往往令人感到遗憾。这是因为大多数人并没有在当前的角色中真正全力以赴。 --- ## 如果你只专注于“你热爱的事”而不是你的工作角色呢? 公司的工作任务并不总是我们自己选择的。然而,“角色”的存在不仅仅是为了个人,而是为了组织和团队的和谐。你如何接受这个角色成为你*专业能力和协作技能*的衡量标准。 有人可能会说: > “我感觉被迫进入一个我不在乎的领域。” > “我想在我真正擅长的领域得到正确的评估。” 我理解这些感受。但你有没有问过自己: > *“我在被赋予的职位上真的尽力了吗?”* 让我们诚实地说: > *“那些逃避当前责任的人往往在新环境中也会因同样的原因再次离开。”* --- ## 真正的专业人士在当前舞台上闪耀 在我身边有一些人,尽管不在前端角色,却帮助同事并主动寻找组织所需的任务。他们毫不犹豫地接受任何技术,并灵活地突破自己的界限——因此得到了认可。 其中一位甚至通过这些努力获得了晋升,现在领导一个重大项目的前端部分,工作比任何人都更努力。 我记得他们说过: > “即使你当前的工作并不是你所渴望的,在其中创造自己的价值可以开启比你梦想的更广阔的道路。” --- ## “逃避”不是方向,而是停滞不前 “我离开是为了寻找我热爱的事。”如果这出于真诚的意图,我真的想支持它。 但现实是残酷的: > *“无法对当前任务负责的人,在新环境中也难以发光。”* > *“如果天堂在你逃避的地方,那些履行责任的人早已创造了它。”* --- ## “你热爱的事”应该是你努力的结果,而不是逃避 说*“我离开是为了做我热爱的事”*并没有本质上的错误。 然而,当有人在辞职时说出这句话,而他们并没有尽全力时,这听起来更像是*逃避的借口*,而不是一个大胆的新挑战。 --- ## 对于那些在岗位上坚持的人 有些人会被认可,有些人会离开。 但留下来的人明白: > *谁是真正准备好的。* > *谁最终会坚持下来。* 那些在当前职位上全力以赴的人,即使不离开,也会做他们想做的事。 --- ## 现在,对那些坚持的人说 如今的就业市场远非易事。职位发布减少,竞争更加激烈,许多人感到迷茫和疲惫。 但请记住: > *“你今天投入的每一分努力都不会白费。”* > 你现在所做的工作,虽然看不见,毫无疑问正在帮助你成长。 我希望你不要放弃,直到找到可以证明自己的舞台——当你踏上这个舞台时,*你将自信地闪耀*。 那些坚持到最后的人将会找到机会。 而那些准备好的人将会抓住它。 *向今天坚守岗位的每一个人致以衷心的掌声。* *保持坚强。你的道路一定在前方。*
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