问HN:在找工作时,你是如何保持动力的?
出于经济和个人原因,我作为一名软件工程师经历了许多工作,既有过成功也有过失落。现在我又在找工作。
在这次求职过程中,我大约申请了六百个职位,得到了大约十几个面试机会,但所有的面试都以被拒绝告终。我认为这在很大程度上是因为2023年对我来说是个糟糕的年份,最后不得不换了三次工作,这样的经历看起来不太好。
虽然我知道这并不是针对个人的,只是商业上的事情,但很难不把这些事情看得太过个人化,从而产生一些自卑感。我认为人类不应该花费几个月的时间不断地向其他人证明自己。这让我开始感到有些沮丧。
在这里,大家通常怎么做才能避免每天早上醒来面对一堆拒绝信而感到沮丧呢?
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For reasons that are economic and personal, I've been had and lost many jobs as a software person. I am in the job hunt again.<p>In this hunt, I think I've applied to about six hundred places thus far, and have gotten about a dozen interviews, and all of those have turned into rejections. I think it's largely due to 2023 being a horrible year for me that ended with me having to change jobs three times, which looks bad.<p>While I know that it's not personal, it's just business, it's hard to not start taking these things personally and develop a bit of an inferiority complex. I don't think humans are meant to spend months at a time trying to prove themselves to other humans constantly. It has started making me a little depressed.<p>What do people here do to avoid getting depressed upon waking up to dozens of rejections every morning?