问HN：增长的终极秘密是什么？
我注意到，如果说有什么普遍适用的建议，那就是：成长是最重要的。
简单明了。
成长的方式是如此微妙，以至于很容易被忽视，从远处看似乎不重要，但从长远来看却会影响到你。我发现自己从一个在点餐时会出汗不止的人，变成了可以和任何人交谈的人。但这并不是自然而然发生的，而是在经历了漫长的失败、平庸的经历，以及一些我原本认为不会有任何结果的交流之后才来的。根据我的经验，这个过程绝对不是线性的。因此，我很想知道你们认为成长的最佳方式是什么。
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I've noticed if at all there is any advice that is universally applicable overarching discipline, motivation, ... is growth.<p>Plain and simple.<p>The way to grow is so subtle, so easy to miss, negligent from afar and in the long run catches up to you. I've noticed going from someone who used to sweat profusely while ordering food to able to go and talk to anybody. But it didn't come consciously, it came after a long long time of screw ups and medicore experiences and just exchanges I wouldn't have thought led anywhere. It definitely is non linear atleast from my experience. SO I'm curious to know what you folks think is the best way to grow