问HN：你是如何调整自己的个性以在面试中表现得更好的？
我刚刚被拒绝了一份工作，这让我感到比应该更沮丧。<p>（在我律师（ChatGPT）的建议下，我不会透露公司的名字）。<p>这真的让我很恼火；在四周的时间里，我进行了三次面试，我对自己的技术问题回答得相当有信心。可能是我的简历看起来太“跳跃”，这也可以理解，但他们本可以在浪费我和他们的时间之前先阅读我的简历，避免这三次耗时的面试。<p>我唯一能想到的就是，他们在面试中可能不喜欢我的个性，这让我感到最沮丧。如果我在技术部分表现不佳，那我可以通过学习更多技术知识来提升自己，但我并不完全确定我的个性在这些面试中出了什么问题，更不知道该如何改变。<p>保持动力很难，但我想我别无选择，因为我还需要支付房贷，所以我想知道这里有没有人能给我一些建议，如何调整我的个性以便在面试中表现得更好？我希望能保持诚实（如果没有其他原因，那是因为我实在是个糟糕的说谎者）。
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I just got declined for a job and it has gotten under my skin much more than it should.<p>(Under the advisement of my lawyer (ChatGPT) I won't say the company's name).<p>It has really annoyed me; I ended up doing three interviews over the course of four weeks, and I'm pretty confident that I got the technical questions right. It could be that my resume is too "jumpy", which is fair, but they could have read my resume before they wasted my time and theirs with three multi-hour interviews.<p>The only thing I can think of is that they just didn't like my personality during the interviews, which is honestly the most frustrating. If I had messed up the technical portion then that would be a goal to work towards by learning more technical stuff, but I'm not 100% sure what about my personality is screwing up these interviews, and even less sure on how I'm supposed to change anything about it.<p>It's hard to stay motivated but I guess I don't have much of a choice since I still need to pay my mortgage, so I was curious if anyone here had any advice on how to best tune my personality to do better in interviews? Preferably I'd prefer to stay honest (if for no other reason than I'm a pretty terrible liar).