请问HN：你们的答案来源是什么？
我很好奇，这只是我一个人的情况，还是其他人也有类似的经历？
以前每当我遇到不懂的问题，无论是什么，我都会向别人寻求建议。如果没有得到答案，我就会上网查找。我注意到，我对世界的许多信念都是来自外界的，部分原因是书籍。但通常我会想，“好吧，我有一个非常具体的问题，我只需要快速的信息来解决它。”
当然，在论坛上会有一些恶意的人，所以我在那些有问题的地方建立了很多消极和削弱自信的信念。
我有一个问题，我的内心基本上是开放的，准备接受答案。我会转向互联网、其他人，甚至书籍，他们给了我限制性的信念，我把这些信念植入了我的大脑。
直到今天，我仍然很难分辨真相与谎言。我知道人们在撒谎，我知道某些事情不对劲，但我无法准确指出是什么。
顺便说一下，如果你在暗示自闭症或其他什么，这对我没有帮助，对你也没有，对任何人都没有。
问题是你是否能感同身受。如果你能或曾经能，分享一下你是如何摆脱这种情况的。我只想听你的真实经历，我不想要某个大师的“十条做任何事情的规则”，我想知道你是如何处理这个问题的，如何走出困境，如何开始更多地信任自己的观点，或者你是如何找到让你在解决问题时感到安全的真相，或者一次性给你带来大量答案的真相，就像雪崩一样。
一般来说，你的答案来源是什么？
附言：目前，人工智能填补了我这个空白。它比网络喷子要好得多，但仍然存在偏见。
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I'm curious, is this just me or are other people also doing this?<p>So whenever I used to not know something, and it could be everything, I would turn to other people for advice. And if there wasn't an answer, I would turn to the internet. And I noticed that a lot of my beliefs about the world come from the outside. Also in part it was books. But it was often like, "Alright, so I have this really specific problem, I just need a quick info on how to do it."<p>And of course on forums there's malicious people, so I built a lot of malicious and disempowering beliefs into my psyche at those places where I had the questions.<p>So I have a question, there's basically an opening in my mind to take in the answer, I turn to the internet, or to other people, or to books even, and they gave me limiting beliefs and I built them into my brain.<p>And up to this day I have a hard time figuring out the truth from lies. I know when people are lying, I know when something is off, but I cannot really pinpoint what it is.<p>And by the way, if you are hinting at autism and whatever, this is not helpful. Not for me, not for you, not for anybody.<p>The question is if you can relate. And what you did yourself, if you can or could relate, to get out of this. And only speak from experience, I don't want some "ten rules on how to do whatever" by some guru, but I want your real experience, how you handled this, how you got out of it, and how you started trusting your own opinion more, or how you found truth outside that made you so secure in a solution for problem or gave you a lot of answers at once like an avalanche.<p>Just in general, what is your source for answers?<p>PS: Currently AI fills this void for me. It's much better than internet trolls but it's still biased.