你如何在网上建立友谊？
摘要：
- 一名网页开发者没有技术方面的朋友
- 他在当地找不到这样的朋友
- 他希望在线建立新的友谊
- 他不确定该如何进行
四年前，我获得了第一份网页开发工作，在那里我结识了许多可以讨论技术、创业、编程等话题的朋友。我称这些朋友为“技术朋友”。当时我们在办公室工作，但过了一段时间，公司转为完全远程办公，我决定搬回家乡并在那里工作。
随着时间的推移，公司结构逐渐发生变化，人们陆续离开，某个时刻我意识到自己已经慢慢与原来的唯一技术朋友疏远并失去了联系。我也无法在不断变化的远程同事中重建这样的联系。
几个月前，由于深度疲惫，我决定暂时离开9-5的工作，最近我意识到一件事。现在我没有工作，也没有同事，我失去了唯一一个可以讨论技术的渠道，这让我感到非常痛苦。
我的家乡没有技术圈子，所以我决定尝试在线建立友谊，特别是在X平台上，但我也愿意尝试其他平台。我听说很多人在线上结识了朋友，但我从未经历过这种情况，不确定该如何开始。
在X上，我给人们真诚的赞美，努力与他们互动，但我不知道如何从那里进一步发展并尝试建立联系。
我应该尝试加入一些社区，参加一些黑客马拉松，直接给人发消息等等吗？
任何直接或间接的建议都将非常有帮助，谢谢！
附言：如果你有兴趣，我很乐意交一些新朋友！可以在X上给我发消息： https://x.com/genkoph
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tldr:
- web developer doesn't have any tech friends
- he can't find such friends locally
- he wants to build new friendships online
- he's not sure how to go about it<p>More than 4 years ago, I got my first job as a web developer where I found a lot of friends that I could talk to about tech, startups, programming, etc. I call those friends "tech friends". At the time we were working in an office but after some time, the company went fully remote and I decided to move back to my hometown and work from there.<p>As the years passed, the company structure gradually changed, people left and at some point, I realized I had slowly grown apart from and lost touch with my original and only tech friends. I also wasn’t able to replicate those connections with my ever-changing remote colleagues.<p>A few months ago, I decided that I'd take a break from 9-5 due to a deep burnout and recently I realized something. Now that I’m not employed and don’t have colleagues, I’ve lost my only outlet to talk about tech and that really hurts.<p>My hometown doesn't have a tech scene so I decided to try building friendships online, particularly on X but I'm open to other platforms. I've heard many people say that they've met friends online but I've never been in that position and I'm not sure how to go about it.<p>On X, I'm giving people genuine compliments, I try to interact with them, but I don't know how to actually progress from there and try to form a connection.<p>Should I try joining some communities, doing some hackatons, messaging people directly, etc.?<p>Any direct or indirect tips would be helpful, thank you!<p>P.S. If you're interested, I’d be happy to make some new friends! Message me on X: https://x.com/genkoph