请问HN：你是如何控制孩子的互联网访问的？
我发现有很多不同的方法，让我很难放心让我的10岁女儿在网上使用互联网，而不觉得自己在不断地监视她。她通常很理智，不会主动寻找不适合她年龄的内容，我对此感到欣慰，但最近她说她在搜索蝴蝶的图片时，偶然看到了一些让她感到不安的东西。（她不想告诉我是什么，因为她觉得尴尬——我没有强迫她告诉我，因为我想给她时间，让她在自己准备好的时候告诉我，但我知道她最终会告诉我，我们也能就此进行对话。一般来说，如果她对某些事情不确定，她会主动问我，这让我感到放心。）
目前在她的笔记本电脑上，我安装了Kagi的儿童版和Firefox上的uBlock Origin，以及一个需要明确将域名列入白名单的浏览器扩展。我希望能够放弃最后一个扩展，因为每次她访问新的域名时都需要我手动添加白名单，这让我觉得太过限制。我希望能找到一种服务，能够根据我的判断来判断什么是适合的，或者通过一些设置来自动判断，这样她就能更自由地探索网络。
不久前，我尝试为她设置一个Google账户，以过滤她在YouTube上可以观看的内容，但（a）遇到了我的个人Workspace账户无法用作家长账户的问题，以及（b）当时的过滤过于严格，因为它采用的是Google批准的白名单方式，排除了许多并非专门针对儿童的频道，而她对此仍然感兴趣。（这里有一个关于YouTube和白名单的有趣讨论 - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44740380 - 但似乎没有得到很好的解决。）
我使用Claude编写了一个浏览器扩展，允许我实现上述功能——对YouTube频道进行白名单管理，并默认隐藏短视频，但我不确定它是否能始终如一地运行，因为它只是YouTube界面上的CSS/JS层。如果它开始失效，我可以将反馈信息发送回Claude，但我不会知道何时会发生这种情况，因为我不会是使用它的人。
我很想听听大家在这方面的做法和想法，因为我相信还有一些我没有想到的好主意。
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There are so many different approaches that I find it difficult to feel comfortable about her using the internet without my 10-year-old daughter feeling like I'm constantly looking over her shoulder. She's generally sensible and doesn't go searching for age-inappropriate stuff, for which I'm grateful, but recently she said she was searching for butterfly pictures and came across something that freaked her out a bit. (She doesn't want to tell me what it was because she's embarrassed - I've not forced her to tell me because I want to give her time to tell me in her own time, but I know she'll tell me eventually and we'll be able to have a conversation about it. In general she'll ask if she's not sure about something, which is also reassuring.)<p>Currently on her laptop I have the kids version of Kagi and uBlock Origin on Firefox, as well as a browser extension that you have to explicitly whitelist domains before they're available. It's the last of these that I'd like to drop somehow - it feels too limiting that every time she goes to a new domain I have to whitelist it, and I'd like to delegate that to a service that approximates my feeling about what's appropriate, or works that out from a few settings, so she's freer to explore the web.<p>A while ago I tried setting up a Google account for her to filter what she could watch on YouTube, but (a) had issues with my personal Workspace account not being able to be used as a parent account and (b) at the time the filtering was too restrictive because it was like a Google-approved whitelisting approach that excluded lots of channels that weren't specifically targeted at kids, but she was still interested in. (There was an interesting discussion of what you can do with YouTube and whitelisting here - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44740380 - that didn't quite seem to resolve itself.)<p>I used Claude to write a browser extension that allowed me to do what I mention above - whitelisting YouTube channels - as well as hiding shorts by default, but I'm not convinced it'll function consistently given that it's just a CSS / JS layer over the YouTube UI. I could just feed it back into Claude if it starts failing, but I won't know when that's happens because I won't be the one using it.<p>I'd be interested to hear everyone's approaches and ideas about how to do this because I'm sure there are some good ideas I haven't thought of.