问HN:在自闭症谱系上,生活的最佳方式是什么?
我从小就非常逻辑思维强,且对阅读有着强烈的执着,早在幼儿园时就开始接触编程,并制作Flash动画。我一直与同龄人和老师存在问题,经常遭到欺凌,这给我带来了情感上的困扰。我总是有一种强烈的需求去研究让我感兴趣的事物,我会像查阅百科全书一样阅读书籍。那时我并不知道,但现在我怀疑自己可能处于自闭症谱系。我相信许多HN社区的成员也有类似的经历或怀疑自己处于谱系中。成长过程中的确很痛苦,因为大多数其他孩子的思维方式与你不同,这通常意味着你的老师也不会像你一样思考。我曾经认为这纯粹是基于智力的衡量,但现在看来,这更多与处于谱系有关。如果你也处于谱系中,你有什么好的建议?你对如何管理这种情况有什么建议?我想听听生活故事和一般建议,我是否应该进行正规的诊断?
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I've been highly logical and obsessive with reading since early childhood, and I got into programming pretty early and built Flash animation since kindergarten. I've always had issues with my peers and teachers, I got bullied quite often, and it was a source of emotional distress. I felt the constant need to work on things that intrigues me, and I'd read books like encyclopedia, I didn't know that then, but I now suspect myself to be on the spectrum. I believe many in the HN community have or suspected themselves to be on a spectrum as well? It's pretty traumatizing growing up because most other kids don't think the way you do, this usually means your teachers don't think like you as well. I used to think it's purely based on the metrics of intelligence alone, but now it seems it's more to do with being on the spectrum. If you've been on the spectrum as well, what's your best advice, and what's your suggestion on managing that? I want to hear life stories and general advices, should I get a proper diagnosis?