我是一名年纪较大的尼泊尔人，目前失业，有什么建议吗？
我目前的情况非常特殊。
我在计算机科学与工程专业的学位上毕业得有些晚，毕业时我已经24岁。之后我在一家私营公司工作了两年多。
后来，我辞去了工作，准备参加政府IT职位的考试，因为这些职位相对稳定，并且对于持有BTech学位的人来说，能够获得一个官员级别的职位。
我开始学习已经有9个月了。
虽然我有一些储蓄，但我一直和父母住在一起。
与父亲的家庭关系变得非常紧张，于是我根据母亲的建议和与叔叔的协调，搬到了我叔叔家。
我在叔叔家住了四个多月。
这段时间我一直在为政府工作学习。
问题是，每当他们看到我在空闲时间玩的时候，姑姑就会觉得“哦，看，他在浪费时间”。我认为他们这样想并没有错。在世界上其他国家，没有人会无偿养活一个人四个多月。
现在我已经完成了课程大纲。父母和叔叔（尤其是姑姑）对我的期望是我能找到一份工作，以便我能搬出他们的家。
我有什么感受？
- 我现在可以应对任何出现在我面前的政府IT/工程考试。我明白这也涉及运气和机会。我不能说我在27岁时就不工作，等待政府职位。
- 找一份私营公司的工作大多数情况下将是浪费时间。我之所以这样认为，是因为需要学习的内容会很多。我大部分时间都花在了为政府IT/CPE职位学习计算机科学/工程相关的科目上。我曾经使用Linux和服务器，但已经有9个月没有接触Linux命令行了。
如果我想重新进入私营部门，我认为我应该考一些RHCSA/RHCE类型的认证，提升自己的水平再去申请。但我觉得这会浪费时间和资源，因为我看不到自己在私营IT行业的未来。
而且私营部门的职位（至少是职位名称）远低于我的学术资格，尽管薪水并非如此。人们普遍认为“我作为工程师在做助理级别的工作”。
我觉得我应该进入IT本科的教学领域。但这样的机会很少，因为我没有硕士学位。
我和母亲（她曾是小学老师）谈过关于教高中生的事情，她插嘴说：“你必须学习与政府工作无关的内容，并可能需要花费大量时间在高中教学上”。
她认为找到一份IT工作也有助于提升技能。
我对此表示赞同，尤其是在学校教学和IT工作都是全职的情况下。
如果有机会，我也希望能从事一些非IT的工作。例如：内容写作等，或者其他不需要大量技能和学习曲线的工作。
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I am in a spectacular situation.<p>I graduated from CSE degree a bit late. I was 24 by the time I graduated. Then I worked in private firm for 2+ years.<p>Then I quitted my job to prepare for Government IT jobs because they were stable, gave a Officer Level role for someone who is a BTech graduate.<p>It has been 9 months since I started studying.<p>Although I have little bit of savings, I was living with my parents.<p>The household situation got really toxic with my father and I moved to my uncle's house(based on my mother's suggestion and coordination with uncle).<p>I have been staying at my uncle's house for 4+ months.<p>All I have been doing is studying for government job in this free time.<p>The problem is whenever they see me playing in my free time, the aunt feels "Oh look he is wasting time". I do not think they are wrong to feel so. In no other countries of the world would anyone feed someone for free for 4+ months.<p>Now I am done with syllabus. And the expectations from my parents and uncle(specially the aunt wants to get me a job quickly so that I move out from their home) is for me to get a job.<p>What I feel?<p>- I can now crack any government IT/engineering exams that appear in front of me. I understand that it is also a matter of luck and chance. And I cannot say I will not work and wait for the government job at the age of 27.<p>- getting a private firm job will mostly be a waste of time. Here is why I believe so. There will be some learning required. Most of my time has gone into studying computer science/engineering subjects for government IT/CPE jobs. I used to work with linux and servers. It has been 9 months since I have touched the Linux CLI.<p>If I am to re-enter private sector, I think I should do some RHCSA/RHCE type of certifications, build up my level and apply. But I find that waste of time and resources because I do not see my future in private IT sector.<p>Plus the private sector roles(at least the title) are way below my academic qualifications. Although the salary is not. And people have that perception that "I am doing assistant level work as an engineer".<p>I feel I should enter teaching field for Bachelors in IT. But getting such a chance is rare as I do not already have a Masters degree.<p>I talked with my mother(who used to be a teacher for elementary school in those days) regarding teaching High School kids and she interfered telling "You will have to study what is not relevant for government jobs and probably dedicate lots of work hours to high school".<p>She believes getting an IT job will help build skills as well.<p>I agree on that specially if both school teaching and IT jobs are full time.<p>If I had a chance, I would love to do some non-IT jobs as well. For example: Content writing etc. Or any other jobs that do not require huge skillset and learning curve.